Does it not annoy you when you are in a relationship and you find out that your man has a side kick? If you are a smart woman you will confront him about it or just let him know that you know and then bounce! Think about it if you are a woman like me in school and doing what you have to do for your child then why waste energy worrying right? Now on the flip side of the situation the biggest question is why would a side kick want to be a side kick? How can you even trust him or even believe him when he says he is not happy? I mean how do you really know? Why wait for someone that is not even worth waiting for? Let say, "sidekick" what could you expect if you get him to yourself? If you get him to marry you and settle with you? In all honesty you don't even know him at all. He comes over for a couple of hours when he is free and you don't really spend holidays with him unless you cry about it. So if you get him and everything that annoyed his wife like bad habits that you did not know about such as: he is not a clean guy, he didn't help with house work, the sex got bad because he wasn't sneaking with you anymore,or he wasnt a true father figure. So, now you got him and its not that easy anymore and now you are his new nagging wife.
Overall as women we have to do better(all ethnic groups). First Main Chic if he can't respect you and be true than became independent and secure in your own self and leave. Second if you are a side chic step up and do something about your self esteem. You are beautiful you can get your own. Also remember never touch what is not yours bc God will hold you accountable. Be Bless!!!
